I'm with ya James on the trying to set all the same at start. No matter what your approach. Personally, old school back em out a 1/4 turn. Others say lightly tighten with allen wrench. So long as all are done the same, torque values should be equal.
When I put the exhaust studs into these heads, I double nutted them, and purposely cranked em down into the threads at 30-40lbs so they wouldn't back out when removing the nuts. The fit is so tight we had to custom cut the studs, and order special acorn nuts to clear. If just a couple studs back out, ya can't get the nuts off, and would likely require a cut off wheel to remove these tubular manifolds. Originally designed for Wagler heads with larger ports, and it takes 3 custom modified wrenches just to R&R the manifolds. Hope I still have those wrenches.. lol
Back to the block and heads. Last thing to do is look for a crack in the block. Gonna be a little tricky to magnaflux the deck with bottom end fully loaded. But gonna give it a try just to be certain. I once had a Cleveland block that cracked between two cylinders, and didn't show up till it got good and warm. Was betting on same situation here, and only reason I fed it a couple bottles of goo to see if it sealed up..
But speaking of heat, and thinking back, this engine has seen 240F a few times prior to these gaskets failing. Once a couple years back when we plugged a sea strainer coming out of a channel. Then again right after the CP3 failure, the coolant reservoir tank bolts came loose and dumped all the coolant while cruising. Then when the Port turbo let go, we ran aground again and plugged the Stbd sea strainer. I may have idled it at 220-230F for a a little bit that day trying make it into the boat ramp on one engine. Like a half hour or so. Almost forgot that one...
Because we was always running that Evans, it never once boiled over. So lets just say a couple times she was pretty warm.. Then last trip out at LOTTO, on regular coolant, and well after the fact IMO, she went off like a tea kettle when I shut her down. As where the Port engine has yet to ever see 230F on the gauge. Could be onto something.