I thought you built your own bypass, I know what you mean about the pressure , however I've never had a filter blow offNo, I ran a Curtis pump.
To do it right, again IMO:
High flow pump.
Larger piston pissers.
Pressure bypass to pan. (Curtis pump has no bypass.)
Oil Temp controlled bypass to cooler.
Dual, if not triple filters to handle flow rate.
Oil gallery plugs ... Destroyed turbos are another story
I use to run Cen pe co 20-50 and see 120psi at cold start