Check that all valves move in their bores smoothly and freely, with no catching or chattering. You might need to get a reemer and fix some of the bores. IIRC, MikeL posted before that sometimes the valve bores are out of round from the factory, and barely work to begin with. Throw a tiny bit of extra torque on the valve body, and nothing will move.
I never saw if you answered the question about if your transmission was worked on stood up on the tailshaft or not? The comments about the rear torrington bearing falling down are a VERY common failure when newbies build a transmission, and trashes all kinds of things. If you worked on the transmission horizontally, you might want to tear it a bit farther down this time and ensure the bearing didn't get hosed. If you worked on it vertically, you're probably fine.
As for the attitude of the site, it largely depends on your attitude coming in. Yeah, some members are unhelpful, and some are spoiled rich kids, but 95% of the people here work hard for their money, and know their limits. Paying a shop is often the right answer if you don't have the time to learn the skills. And, as you are finding out, the Allison is not as simple as it looks to be on paper, so learning the skills can take longer and cost more than you might think. So like everyone else is saying, chill out, pull the trans, and see what you find. Believe it or not, we are trying to help. We just have little patience for what we see as demands on our time (why do we help random strangers for free?) from people who aren't appreciative. A good attitude in return goes a long ways.
Good luck on the re-rebuild. Post what you find, stay cool, and we'll get you back on the road.