I thought it was the same thing. Isn't how "tight" the converter feels describing couple speed? maybe I used the wrong choice of words, still learning!
You have stall and couple rate. The stall is essential where engagement occurs and coupling could be described as load rate?
your stall is how high you can rev the motor in gear on the brakes till it starts pushing you through them. (its not an exact measurement but thats the basic idea behind stall).
the coupling ability is how efficent the turbine are inside when under power and load to transfer that power from the motor into the trans. the closer you can get the two turbines to 1:1 ratio, the more efficent it is at that power level. the farther away you are from that number, the more power you loose to the ground.
and thats about as far as my knowledge on that goes. how stall can change its coupling ability or even if it can, i dont know. Im sure mike or ben will set me right if im spewing vulgar info but thats the way ive understood it.