That last screenshot shows 2385 engine RPM with 1084 slip, so the input shaft wants to be at 1,301 RPM. That's probably half your problem right there. The trans tuning is setup so that while merging up an on-ramp it is trying to pull the motor down to a really low RPM.
Imagine if you had a lockup box and hit lockup right there. You'd fall right off even the stock turbo.
I think a trans tune would help quite a bit. I don't have any explanation for why it worked right before, or why it changed, but in its current state, I think the shift points are not right for your build.