Full of electrical mysteries, I changed the column harness back to the original still with no luck, I ended up changing the BCM to see if that would change it, boom the lights shut off when they are supposed to, truck even started with the new BCM, out of curiosity I also changed the ignition so I could use a different key I have, truck started and ran fine again with the security light flashing, I didn't think it was supposed to do that with a different BCM let alone another key