I am aware this isnt related directly to efi live, feel free to move it. however most people searching for this information are doing so because of dsp.
Here are my findings after I spent a good deal with an awesome parts guy.
LB7 ecm pin number (according to parts guy) 12020758 this was found in a red box tray 3 slot 21
LLY ecm pin number (according to google) #15356826 and #15359541. This was found in tray 20 slot 7
LBZ ecm pin number (according to google) #12084913 for 5 or GM part #12084912 for 10. This was found in tray 19 slot 23.
The lb7 pins are longer than lly pins. they are both round pins.
All the LLY pins i have seen have a gold tip on them
the LBZ pins are a triangle shape pin.
I hope this helps anyone who was in the same boat I was.
ecm pin part number, lly pin, lbz pin, lb7 pin, tray numbers.
I would post pictures if i had a good hosting service that will last for several years to come.