I would think you would want 60 over sticks, but 40 will still be lots of fun. The big thing is start off slow, or even a non boosted launch in 4 high and see how she does. If you are low enough in the front (so slight neg angle on the CVs to 0 angle) you shouldn't need the limit straps.
The centerlinks do help, I don't really like my straight centerlink. it does stop any of the roll on it, but it also makes the tires fight when I turn. get lots of
looks when I'm trying to turn in a tight parking lot and the tires are bawling. I hear good things about the kryptonite setup.
I would have to look what the socal mild built is, but I think it would take more power than your current air and injector setup can throw at it-so the engine shouldn't be a factor as long as you don't push the IHI too hard and frag it