The U bolts were brand new when I installed the bars, I had to cut the old ones off. I had my Local shop bend them up for me, iirc they are 5/8'' rod. I also replace them when they come off, i have always been told thats what you do with them.
I am using 2 5/8'' wide 2'' diameter bushings at the frame and heim joints at the axle with spacers to allow for more movement, i believe they are 7/8'' shank and 7/8'' hole iirc. I got an extra set of the axle cups that the u bolts go through on the axle and welded a flat plate on them and some ears for the heim.
I do not intend on using a triangulated arm on my LLY, I am thinking about using the same type tabs in N2BRK's thread (
https://thorbros.com/4-link-parts/4-link-mounting-tabs/4-link-axle-tab) like that. welding them to the bottom of the tube to take the stress off the U bolts.
the heaviest thing i have carried with them on is my 400 gal water tank approx 3400lbs in the bed with air bags, and tow a camper thats approx 5klbs. the truck i was towing home when it broke, was maybe 5k? ish