04 LLY 4x4 ex cab sb. 160k on clock. Came in for a broken rear tranny adapter. Long story short is tcase had no pump rub hole. When I initially pulled it apart I drained the case and only got about a cup of black fluid out of it. Fearing the worst I split the case to see what was bad(not my first case rebuild). Much to my surprise only damaged parts I found were a broken range shift fork pad and a spun tail bushing which I beleive had something to do with the tranny adapter cracking. So I did a gmax kit with a PPE conv and put the new parts in tcase along with a MA pump rub kit. Note: this truck is a mess....rear u joints bad, front ball joints bad, rear tires shot with half tread fronts, cluster doesn't work,.....you get the idea. Got it put back together and everything goes fine except for shifting tcase into 4x4 it grinds just a little and then slams into 4x4 when the truck is moving. Sitting still the 4x4 will engage quietly no pops or bangs. It stays in 4x4 no popping in and out even under slight boost launch. So immediately I'm thinking syncro in tcase is fried but to quench my curiosity I drained the front diff to find it a qt low on fluid and gray/black color with glitter in it! So I filled it back up with clean oil and now still same thing only not quite as bad as before. How do I diagnose what is bad without wasting my time pulling a tcase back out that isn't damaged? Btw owner put new tires on it for me because I thought the tire diameter difference may have affected the shifting of the tcase. Is the front diff supposed to couple first to get the driveshaft spinning so the tcase can mesh better or does the tcase shift at same time the front diff does? Thanks in advance!