I guess that's the popular thought process. Other folks' lights seem blinding (have glare and complete lack of appropriate lighting pattern) so my lights must be inadequate. I want to be like them! I bet they can see great!
Reality is their pupils are dilated due to the "squirrel light" effect, super reflective road signs, and atmospheric reflection, and inappropriate color temperature output for visible contrast.
For low beams and fogs, you should be able to pull up to a wall and see a hot spot just below horizontal from the lens that gently fades going down, and very little (if any) light above horizontal from the lens. That hot spot below horizontal is what illuminates the road at a distance without being wasted light, in the eyes of oncoming. High beams then complete the illumination field, above horizontal.
State inspections in my state used to require a headlight output and aim check. They'd flag you for having inappropriate bulbs installed. That part of the inspection was eliminated some years ago. I wish they'd bring it back. Too many retards with drop in "MEYOFOFCHI" branded bulbs from amazon that they think are an improvement and are advertised as 340,000 lumens at 6500K color temperature. I mean, higher numbers is always better, right?
Get housings that are 100% if yours are aged. OE is better than crash parts cheap replacements. TYC if you must. Then find higher output halogens that are appropriate for the housing. I promise you'll like the end results. If you were near me you could come see my truck. OE housings, one year old. Perfect condition. Appropriate 9011 high, 9012 low, and 9055 fog bulbs.
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