I finally figured this out for the last time. adding resistors to the 194's didnt do anything for me. It was the 194's I was using, they were not polarized and this allowed the back feeding of voltage through the running lights. I picked up some polarized leds for all 4 194's and everything works now. Slightly off topic, but maybe it will help someone else someday. I now have Leds everywhere using a gm led flasher, 1 resistor on each front turn signal and nothing else. All of the Leds are vleds with the exception of the 4 194's in the corner...I used sylvania zevos for those.