Thanks again for the kind words. We spent all night trying to get the forum back as far as we can before passing out last night. Dave (4cstr) and some other spent all night working.
Those of you that have met me I hope know that I would never wish this on anyone, I forgive and forget. I hold no grudge against anyone, ever. I take back friends that have done pure evil things to me in the past, and never questioned them again. Perhaps that is a character flaw, but I sleep well at night becasue of it.
The short story is the databse is gone, and the backup was corrupted. I have a server being built now that will include off site RAID backed up every 60 minutes. When it is completed, we will migrate the site to the new server. For those who asked, we are currently with HostGator.com
Thanks again for the words of encouragement, it means alot!