In the most basic setup this is what you need to get yourself hooked up to run nitrous.
You need:
-A bottle.
-Long braided line that runs from bottle to solenoid. (-4AN or -6AN depending on the bottle fitting size)
-Short braided line that runs from solenoid to spray nozzle.
-A nozzle. (basic single inlet fan spray)
-A relay.
-A momentary switch.
-A standard toggle switch.
-A small assortment of jets. (I would start with a set of .020 up to maybe .067, you can get them in multi-packs of 5&10 i believe)
The plumbing runs as follows: Bottle>long braided line>solenoid>short braided line>nozzle. The nozzle holds the jet inside the threads where the braided fitting attaches.
The electrical on my own system runs as a basic relay does, only I run the switch signal that is in the cab through a toggle switch before it gets to the momentary so that the momentary isnt active all the time.
I open and close my bottle(its in the bed) manually a couple minutes before and after my pass.
A bottle heater isn't very necessary, as we dont rely heavily on air/fuel mixture ratio (as gas cars do). If the bottle is cold and down 100-200psi I have never seen a large difference in the effect of the spray.
Most any kit you find on your local craigslist can be converted for use "dry" like you need. Dry means nitrous only, not Nitrous/Fuel (which is referred to as "wet"). If you want to get a line that is the exact length so you dont have a bunch left over and coiled up, mount your bottle+solenoid where you want it and run a string from bottle to solenoid, then pull it out and measure it.
As far as tuning goes, you dont need a "nitrous tune" you can run the spray on any of the tunes you normally race on.
As far as what size jet(or "pill") to use, start low and go up until you eliminate any smoke you are seeing at full boost. Once the smoke is gone you have very little to gain from going up in size. This also goes for people wondering if nitrous will help them...if you run a huge turbo on stock fuel, and the truck is already completely smokeless at full boost, you will see little if any gain.
Steve