Never did mind the little things

[sweetdiesel]

My father and I havent talked for a couple months
he understands I work a lot and trys to inderstand why I never talk to my Sisters or him

I got a Call from my Sister tonight that my dad is in real bad shape
she was mad at me for not paying attention to family

I have 100% repect for my Dad he is the hardest worker and true to life person ive ever met.....we have never really told each other how we felt about each other ( something about man Pride ) he has never once said to me he loves me but i Know he does, I had a rough up bringing being my mom and dad where never together.......Blah blah

he is not doing good and does not want to see me,Saying he does not want me to see him at a weak point ( stuborn )

Guys i have realized that family is #1 Sadly it took me to realize this

My mom had a agument right before her mother died in a car wreck and she always told me "Never let a loved one leave upset"


Im takeing tommorow off and going to viset my dad

 

[partsguy662]

Damn simon....Here's hoping for the best for him...........

 

[Kat]

Taking tomorrow off tomorrow is a good thing :hug:

If you need anything you know my number.

 

[Diesel Pilot]

Best wishes Simon.

I hope your Dad gets better. It's great that you are going to take time to spend with him.

 

[LBZ]

Say hi to your Dad for me Simon. Hope things get better for him!

 

[billygoat7c]

man thats a bummer simon. hope he gets better!

 

[2wd_Sled_Puller]

Simon sorry to here about it. When you see him ask to have a moment of alone with him and express your feeling tell him that u love him and such. My uncle wasnt the I love you type of guy. But me and him where very very close. Right before he passed i spoke with him together. And i do not regret it. I beilve i would have if i wouldnt of express my fillings.

 

[coldLBZ]

Sorry to hear that Simon. You are doing the right thing going to see him. You being there for him will be very important to him. Not sure what else to say, I hope everything works out for you, your Dad, and your entire family.

 

[SmokeShow]

Damn dude. Sorry to hear this. Hope it all works out for you all though. I put you all in my thoughts and prayers. Try your damnedest not to let any "male pride" stop you from doing or saying anything you are feeling and looks like you are doing that by going to see him tomorrow.

Sorry bud.
Mitch

 

[The Neens]

My thoughts are with you my friend...

 

[LarryJewell]

My thoughts are with you as well Simon

 

[mplteddy]

Family first buddy....do what you need to with your Dad. Only met him once, nice guy. Let me know if you need anything.

 

[McRat]

Sorry to hear that.

Hope he gets well soon.

 

[MAXLLY]

Hang tough Simon.

 

[bullfrogjohnson]

Your in my thoughts and prayers Simon. Give your Father a big Team Salad hello

 

[Turbo Buick 6]

Best wishes to your father and you Simon

 

[Pondsy]

Hang in there Bro!!

We'll keep you, your dad and your family in our prayers.

 

[Mike L.]

You're doing the right thing Simon. This meeting will be different than anything you ever experienced and that's a good thing. Good Luck to your dad.

 

[JoshH]

Sorry to hear about your dad, Simon. I hope everything works out and you have a nice visit. Take care.

 

[sweetdiesel]

Thanks everyone,He is going to be Just fine
He says he is to hard headed to go anywhere any time soon

Im Glad i went to see him today though,Its something I need to do more
of and cant be takeing for granted that he is always going to be there

Mike you are correct it was almost akward at first, but in the end we had a good talk

Thanks everyone:hug: