first start, i usually have no coolant in the truck and its mainly a quick look for oil or fuel leaks. truck runs for a quick 30-45 sec. during this. if all looks good, ill finish out putting it back together and top fluids off, start truck and let it idle up to temp or atleast as far as it will go. let it cool down over the next couple hours or till the next day and if the tune it has is a fairly good one off the bat, she sees no remorse. ill start being hard on it once temp comes up a bit and varying engine rpm constantly. the idea is to help seat the rings right away and if something is going to fail, i need to know now, not later. the first time you go WOT and having that worried feeling never changes though. i prefer that over no worries at all.
oil, just use what ever diesel oil off the shelf, you will be changing it very soon. i prefer a 100 mile oil change to split the filter and look for any major issues starting. it also gets the glitters out as it breaks in. then at 500, another change and oil filter split. that then tells me if we have any small issues coming up as you shouldnt find much of anything. from there, its how every long you like keeping oil in it.
towing, id maybe throw 100+ miles on it first. Not due to break it but to find the clamp you missed tightening, the boost leak thats slowing you down, or so on. after that, let her sing. i still try to vary rpm if possible if it aint got atleast 300 miles on it. so if its a long flat stretch, drop it to 4th for a bit, then back to 5th and so on. if you have lots of hills, not much to worry about.
ive done this with many dmax engines over the years and even did this with my new 2020. had 160 miles on it and took it on a 600 mile tow trip up the mountains. she saw foot to the floor for miles at a time up some of the grades. granted, its stock but im not a nice guy to my engines