My trans seems to have a mind of its own. Shifting will be fine somedays but then others I can't even stand to drive it. 4-3 downshifts sometimes are extremely hard. On my edge insight I watched it go from 5-4-n-2 then complete stop and lurches forward and downshifts to 1st. Also likes to rev up I between gears sometimes. Resetting the taps seems to work but is it safe to do it multiple times a week or even day? I read reflashing the TCM can help. True? I have a autocal I can try and do that with but where do I get the file? Does the dealership charge for this? Hate to throw money at it with just a guess. I have a fuel filter i will be putting on