Now that I know you don't have a major restriction in the system (thanks Mark), I'll say two things:
1. Your converter seems to be way too tight. Aftermarket turbos, even VGT, need RPM to spool.
2. I know others have had a different experience than me, but I've never had any luck getting turbos to spool by lowering timing. I've always had the best luck cleaning up smoke and making trucks responsive by adding more timing.
Thanks I will revisit timing. I honestly haven't seen a much of difference in lag reduction in any of my test. Other then adding more fuel.
I'm really just trying to rule out an upcoming catastrophic failure of the torque converter or trans. Now, I don't know if that's the case or not. It doesn't seem like it since this has been goong on for over 3 years. All this started when I wanted a clean running truck. Maybe the bad choice in TC didn't show itself until then.