you have control of you sig, you have control of what you post to others. Pat's pm that you posted is fairly straight forward and is no more then what anyone else here is asked to do. You're not going to be allowed to do whatever you want here because your site.
And for the record i'm the one that edited you sig the first time as a joke. If you have a problem with that... Well i can live with it. People that have no sense of humor i have fun tormenting. No moderator that i am aware of has done anything to your sig just little old me. So please stop saying that they are constantly changing your sig its old already.
Pat is an owner here you play by his rules, end of it. He did on your site until he stepped over the line (per you) and you banned him. He is trying to not be like other sites and banning people all the time. Seems to me you just want to be banned so that you can slam pat and this site for banning you instead of following a few rules. You make the rules on your site we make them here kind of the way it is. If you don't like it here, as others have said, don't come here.
perfectly said