Well, if the hose is still rock hard after sitting for a while (at least over night), then I'd say there probably is a headgasket problem. If there's fuel in the oil, the only place it can come from on the LLY's (AFAIK) is the CP3.
So, if I am understanding this correctly, The head gaskets are the only cause of the hard rad hose on the LLY's? In addition to the head gaskets the CP3 which I have been suspect is weak for over a year now, Now is leaking fuel into the CC some how?
The oil is dripping from the oil drain plug. I double checked this last night and tightend and yet this morning without driving all night there is a drip? WTF?