IMHO you would be better off with 3rd gear and 35" tires with that gear ratio. I pulled with 4.56 gears with around 700hp and in 4th gear still had to unlock the converter at the end. This was on very tight ohio clay tracks. I tried 33" tires with same results. Not enough HP's plain and simple.
No wheel speed. A well coupling convertor may do alright but you'd be peeing into the wind with no lock up. You're in that no mans land as far as your gearing. 4.10 is too low for 3rd gear and too high for 4th. What size tire?