I'd bet I'm lighter than you'll be by a good bit. I'm around 3500lbs fwiw. I was only making 400ish hp with my turbine housings being too big but the trans I'm running is bone stock. Didn't do anymore than change the fluid and stuff it in. Even stock converter. Wanted to find the breaking point but haven't got there yet. Probably had around 9K miles and 50ish passes this summer without issue. From my research, clutches and a billet input will hold some decently serious power so that's my plan this winter.
Also, I don't have a controller on my trans, I built brackets inside the shifter housing for micro switches to activate the right solenoid(s) for each gear. Probably get a lot of turned up noses for that but it was cheap, effective and it's been trouble free.
I'm curious to the context this was broken? What weight was the vehicle or trailer and how much power? Easy to post broken parts and say to get different or upgraded ones but it's more helpful to give the conditions and information on how it happened to make the choice.