4.10's may well be the ideal, but PANCHORFO has the advantage of already having 3.73's.
If it won't add to the cost to swap gears, I still recommend trying the 3.73's. If it will cost more to do the swap once the vehicle is assembled, then you might want to put in different gears now. However, I don't think the cost would be that different? If it is more, ask yourself if you'd pay $100 (or whatever) to be able to try 3.73's first, or if you'd rather go with something else without trying it.
I have stock 3.73 gears, and my truck weighs 8,200 lbs with me in it, but I only have 35" tires. It does 18-19 MPG on the freeway at 70 MPH, and turns 1850 RPM. With the stock turbo, it was plenty responsive in town. I put on a S371, and had to raise the shift points a little bit or it was pretty doggy in town. With a stock turbo and that light Jeep, you should be just fine.
Basically, unless it costs a lot more to change gears later, I would still recommend trying the 3.73's.