the reason you see different oil pressure on an 01-02 vs an 03-04 is
NOT because the ECM "lies" or the cluster "shows you what it wants and not the real thing".
The 03+ sensor is accurate, and if you watch the actual engine oil pressure reading over the databus with a tech 2 and then look at the gauge on the cluster, you'll find that it is perfectly accurate.
The location of the sensor is what makes the difference, thats the only thing I can think of. The 01/02 trucks have it mounted in a different location in the oiling passages than the 03+ trucks' sensors'.
Also, the fact that the 2003+ trucks have a 120psi oil gauge might make it initially appear that 01-02 trucks have "higher" oil pressure, because the 01/02 clusters only go to 80psi.
ben